Brotherhood of Pleasure
We have to learn how to connect our spirituality to our masculinity. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don’t our spirituality gets made up for us by other people, and our sexual pleasures are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen. Listen m8, beyond ideas of gay and str8, there is another world of pleasure, I could meet you there. Discovered a new world of totally amazing pleasure. This “Three Circle Ritual” is strictly men only. Come and share your wisdom with other men. Learn in a relaxed loving space where there is a clearly defined understanding not to initiate or engage in sexual practises such as oral or anal. Join us in our brotherhood of masturbative pleasure. This may be by simply observing and witnessing other men masturbating, or by agreement and consensus may involve simple erotic touch towards the end of the session. Indulge yourself in amazing artistic techniques where the goal is beyond ejaculation, to allow you to experience states of expanded erotic pleasure. Seb Cox will be leading this workshop to help you discover how sacred masturbation can bring you to new levels of sacred pleasure, connecting your mind, body and spirit. Each month we will have a different co-facilitator, working with Seb. Janurary’s co-faciliator is Nisarg, from PleasureLab, Tantra practitioner & explorer for past 20+ years & a man who is still hungry for more learning. He has been practicing Taoist Erotic Masseur & sacred intimate since 1994. You are invited to celebrate yourself in a circle of men that will meet once a month for erotic practice specifically focused on exploring profound energetic pleasure. In preparation for the Chinese New Year, 2012 is the year of the Dragon; January’s Three Circle Ritual will feature, “The Nine Jade Dragon Exercise”. We will explore new ways to generate erotic energy. We gradually work into a pleasure practise called “The Three Circle Ritual”. This ritual begins and ends in silence. The Earth Circle or outer circle is for sacred witnesses. You sit quietly meditating while observing the inner cycles. The Sky Circle or middle circle is for awakening. You simply stand in front of where you were sitting. Here you can gently move or dance, breathe, dance, stroke and massage yourself. This is your exclusive space for awakening. The Sun Circle, inner circle, or Heart Fire Circle. Here you celebrate and dance with each other – joyful intimacy with depth, honesty, vulnerability, playfulness, and most importantly respect, while you are hugged, massaged, and spiritually cuddled. During the Three Circles Ritual you can dance from one circle to the next as often as you want. At least one man will remain in the Earth Circle for the entire celebration. This is your erotic practice – an opportunity to celebrate yourself. We will practice and practise, edging ourselves to an even deeper state of profound pleasure and joy. Donation £30, there are a few free places for eroic dance performers. To register for the event, click here. For more info call Seb Cox – 07974 805666
These events are inspired by a talk given by Joseph Kramer , the famous sexologist, on his recent visit to London. We held our first meetup on Sunday, November 20, 2011, our next event takes place on Sunday 22nd Jan. at 6:30 PM at Sacred Pleasures in Stratford. I have added the comments below from men from my meetup group that attended the event.
A good evening, with a mix of sensual pleasures shared amongst the brotherhood. Look forward to the next one!
I had a great evening sharing with like minded men, although i know this particular Meetup could be even better.. by removing the massage tables it will change the direction of where we are going with this and encourage room for new possibilities.. Movement, Dance, more breath work, finding ones own sexual energy
Mark
Thanks for your words of wisdom. I promise there will be no massage tables at the next, or any future “Brotherhood of Pleasure” meetup. I agree I think it would work better. I think I might even get rid of the chairs. What do you think?
A big hug
seb
This was a super get together, where Men could just ‘be’ themselves. It was a very inspiring and open time, where we shared much energy and love together. I’d definitely come to another one!
Really enjoyed myself!
hi seb, sorry for flow response to your request for feedback on the brotherhood of pleasure seeing your mail announcing future ones has prompted me to get these thoughts to you
- the group remained largely anonymous with each other, perhaps helping each other to undress would help us bond and relax. undressing ourselves with our eyes shut maybe adds to feelings of shame or embarrassment
- i was looking forward to the ritual journey you had outlined for the evening – eg the self pleasure nrg raising was something i, like others, had hoped to experience in a group of men. i think we started touching and massaging too soon.
- the ban on sex during the evening: is this necessary? it puts up a boundary which maybe prevents free flow of spontaneous connection. i would like to be open to how a ‘brotherhood of pleasure’ might develop in the moment
- the invitation to be non-judgmental is great but im not sure its fully felt by all participants. maybe gay men need more coaxing into this state of mind, tho im not sure how?
i offered to drum at a future celebration and the offer still stands if i am available when the evening happens. i enjoyed the celebration, and can imagine a very sacred and sexy space developing – when the men get a bit more confident i think! all the best to you, power to your tantric fingertips
dear friend, i will be in london soon and i am so much interested in the brotherhood of pleasure. i ve been studing that, seeing videos and more, but i am deeply interested in be a part of it. can you help me with that? i am also really shy and would like to understand how do we treat that during the session.
looking forward to hear from you,
Dino, It would be great to meet you at Janurary’s Brotherhood of Pleasure you can register for the event at
http://www.meetup.com/BIG-LINGAM-TANTRA-LONDON/
or
http://www.meetup.com/London-Male-Naturists-2/
look forward to meeting you
best wishes
seb cox
Hi Seb, I was wondering if you could elaborate on the three circles ritual, I understand the outside circle where you observer and begin to understand. I think the second circle is individual understanding, am I right in thinking the central circle is a comunal area where all parties dance together?
We have to learn how to connect our sexual pleasures to our masculinity. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don’t our spirituality gets made up for us by other people, and our sexual pleasures are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen.
Dear friend, i am so frustrated that i will arrive in london only in january 25th, loosing the opportunity to join you, what i was so excited for. is it any other activity that i could get durin my london stay (course, meeting, anything?)thank you, and i am very positive that it will be another great evening.