Hello Mr Cox, There were only two events in my life where I had experienced these spiritual orgasms. The experience was so immense it is hard to describe into words. Most importantly is recognising that it takes a lot of time to get there and worse of all it is not easy to remain in that state for a long time. Everyday living, the distractions cause you to come off that plateau.
I think it is best to describe how I got there and maybe words will come to describe it. It started off with a shower and making sure the insides are thoroughly clean. Lie naked on the bed with several pillows under your lower back raising your bottom slightly in the air. Legs are bent and spread apart like a woman in a birthing position with under the knees supported with more pillows. In this position one should feel comfortable and relaxed with no muscles feeling the strain to support your legs. Begin breathing exercises through the nose all the time concentrating on letting everything go, clearing your mind.
Carry on deep breathing while at the same time working on your chakras opening them up. Start with the head, moving down to the throat, down into your chest. At this point your breathing should be shallow and deep and slow and you would be feeling very relaxed.
The hard part is moving the chakras further below to the navel and eventually the groin area. Continual deep breathing is essential to eventually break open the groin chakra. One trick discovered was when breathing in, press gently your pelvic bone in a brush down motion to facilitate the opening of the chakra. While doing this continue to free your mind of thoughts and clutter and focus your eyes slightly to be receptive of a vast expanse of whiteness in the air like an aura. This works better outdoors if you have that opportunity. This is important as seeing this whiteness is the extra energy source which will flow into you and rapidly open up the groin chakra. Another trick discovered is at this point gently play with your anus until it fully opens as you breathe in.
If you have a vibrating butt plug, this will be the time to insert it while your groin chakra is opening. At this point while you are breathing in, you should experience a tingling sensation starting from the pelvic area and slowly spreading down your cock, and into your balls at the same time and finally a tingling from your perineum. Continue this for another twenty or more times until you reach a point that every time you breathe you really feel energy flow from the top of your body rushing down like a funnel into your groin area and flow out again through the perineum and down to your legs and feet.
While all this is happening, allow your mind to expand into this vast whiteness you have focused your eyes on and suck in this energy. This will increase the funneling sensations into your groin increasing the sensitivity before flowing out down your legs and feet. The heightened sensitivity by breathing in continually causing this rush of intense energy being funneled into the groin eventually leads to an internal orgasm ( all the time the vibrating butt plug is still going on). The internal ( spiritual) orgasm thanks to the vast whiteness of pure energy rushing through your chakras to a funnel sensation in the groin and out again is like a massive explosion sending waves of energy through every part of your body through your muscles and nerves heightening your sensations.
On both occasions this lasted for five to ten minutes as wave after wave continue to ripple through the body. The end feeling was one of wholeness, completeness, a sense of peace and calm and elation. After all this, the feeling remained for a whole day and the next day and then coming down to earth began to result. Also the first time this happened it took me four hours. The second time was two and half hours. Made me realise that you need to give it time to make it work but it sure was worth it. Trouble is who has two to four hours these days to spare to devote to this. No wonder many people forget themselves and their true inner self.
One final note, I strongly suspect the pantra will do a much better job than the vibrating butt plug as the massaging of the prostate and perineum simultaneously will maintain the funnel flow feeling. I have not found four hours yet to try this out but cannot wait to do it when I have the time. Mr D
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GP writes about his male massage experiences in Sri Lanka
I was on a 14 day trip to Sri Lanka in 2010 – 7 days on the beach and 7 days touring the cultural triangle. We arrived at a hotel in Habanara about 5pm to visit the sites the next day; it was a nice modern hotel but as it was out of season, and earily very quiet. The journey from our beach base had been quite hard – 4.5 hours in a minibus so I checked into my room and prepared to have a nap before dinner. In the room was a leaflet detailing the massages and ayervedic health treatments available. As i had two hours to kill, I thought a nice relaxing massage would help ease some of the muscle tension from all that coach travel. I wandered down to the bar area and asked the barman – the only member of staff around – if it was possible to book a massage. He asked when and I said now if possible, seeing as there were so few guests in the hotel. He flashed me a smile, picked up the phone and I presumed was calling for one of the girls from the beauty spa to come and collect me. Instead, another guy turned up in uniform and took over his bar duties. He said follow me and led me to the hut where massages were conducted. The guy was dark skinned, had a smile to die for, and was bigger built than most Sri Lankans but not an ounce of fat on him. He casually said “strip”, threw a towel at me, told me to sit down and then disappeared. I nervously did and it seemed like ages before he returned.
He came back in the room and said get on the massage table face down quite forcibly, which surprised me and then put on the radio which was tuned to a local station. So much for relaxing whale music then, I thought. No sooner had my face hit the surface of the massage table he tugged at the towel which he’d told me to wrap myself in. I was left exposed and felt a mixture of vulnerability given this was my first massage experience, excitement, and eager anticipation. He started chatting to me which I hated – either you do a relaxing massage or we can have a chat in the bar. But then he said so are you married? I said no and he replied are you looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend? This completely threw me off track as Sri Lankan culture is quite reserved and all I managed to mutter was maybe. I then berated myself for saying something so meaningless! But the next thing I knew he was applying massage oil along the backs of my legs, buttocks letting it drip between my crack. His strong hands then started to massage in the oil and almost immediately as his hands rubbed up my legs he let a thumb linger near my crack. I knew then this was not going to be your average massage. I was so worked up within minutes that I almost came on the spot as he firmly yet softly explored my calves, buttocks and and then he slowly and delicately touched my sack on the down stroke.
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I was already in heaven and thought to myself, I’m not going to see the guy again so go with the flow and just enjoy it. He moved up to my back and shoulders and it was there that I glimpsed the outline of a massive cock through his loose white linen trousers. I was tempted to grab it but resisted. The massage of the shoulders and back wasn’t that great to be honest – almost a token gesture – and luckily he moved back around the table and focused on the my legs and buttocks again. By this time I was so hard I thought I’d explode. Suddenly his long strokes turned much shorter as he zeroed in on my crack. Before I knew what was going on he was probing my willing hole with his fingers with one hand and had somehow pulled my stiff cock down and was massaging it with my balls. It was when he pushed and touched my prostate that I let out a huge groan and he instructed me to turn over. I did and all British reserve had gone now. I didnt care I was butt naked with the biggest hard on I had ever had and was oozing pre-cum. He pushed my legs apart and made me bend my knees as he focused again on my prostate whilst gently massing the tip of my cock. By now I was in oblivion and he expertly continued to massage the cock with one hand and gently stimulate my prostrate with the other.
After probably 10 minutes of the exquisite sensations, I suddenly started to tense as I could feel I was going to come. Despite willing myself to hold on, I knew it was futile and so for the next 30 seconds I just enjoyed the growing sense of joy. He continued to work on me yet at the same time moved around the side of the table and his cock was exposed, rigid, close to my chest. Inevitably I came, more than I had ever done before, and the spunk hit my chin and cheeks. Amazingly, as I did, so did he all over my chest without anyone even touching it. He disappeared after for about 10 minutes as I composed myself and then re-emerged. Matter of factly he asked was the massage any good. I smiled and he beamed back at me. I didn’t make dinner that night. After wanking myself off twice reliving the whole exoctic experience I slept for 10 hours. We left the next morning, and the staff lined up to bid us farewell. I hardly acknowledged the barman/masseur but am sure I saw a swelling in his trousers, and vowed to return another year. I have had a few male massages since, but none have come anywhere near to this experience. By GP
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According to a new study out of Durham University on the changing social habits of heterosexual males. Published in the journal of Men and Masculinities in March, the study revealed that 98 percent of the study’s participants — all white, college-age male athletes — have shared a bed with another guy.
In addition, 93 percent also reported having spooned or cuddled with another man. Study co-author and sociologist Mark McCormack, of Durham University, says the study’s results exemplify changing conceptions of masculinity in contemporary culture. As homophobia decreases, McCormack says, straight men are acting “much softer” than those from older generations — something he and Eric Anderson, of the University of Winchester, set out to examine. The two sociologists conducted in-depth interviews with 40 young male athletes — a sample they chose because of the group’s likelihood to be in closer physical contact with one another and because of the notion that athletes embody what it means to be traditionally masculine.
McCormack told HuffPost he was surprised by how uneventful and mundane participants viewed their behaviours. “They don’t realize this is something that older men would find shocking,” he said. “It’s older generationsthat think men cuddling is taboo.” Matt, one of the men interviewed for the study, explained his viewpoint on cuddling with his male friend Connor. The researchers noted the response in their study: I feel comfortable with Connor and we spend a lot of time together. I happily rest my head on Connor’s shoulder when lying on the couch or hold him in bed. But he’s not the only one. The way I see it, is that we are all very good and close mates. We have a bromance where we are very comfortable around each other. The history of homosocial relationships, or heterosexual male friendships, is deeply complex and steeped in social stigmas, myth, rejection and aggression, the authors explain in their research. But stigmas and traditional roles are going out the window as younger generations are becoming more open and accepting.
“The social taboo against cuddling has been because for two men to get close was traditionally seen as ‘gay’. Men wanted to avoid being the target of homophobic abuse, so they would be macho to distance themselves from any perception of homosexuality,” McCormack told HuffPost. “But there is a generational effect here: Older men who grew up in the 1980s may still feel the need to present a very straight version of themselves, but more positive attitudes toward homosexuality in contemporary culture mean that younger men are simply less concerned about how other people view their behaviors.” McCormack says Anderson, who expanded on the study, found similar behaviors across country lines, though American men were found to engage in those behaviors less frequently. “British men are more advanced than American men in doing this, but these behaviors are still occurring, and we predict that increasing numbers of American men will engage in them as they realize the benefits of doing so,” McCormack said. McCormack acknowledges that anti-gay sentiment is still around but that many guys don’t seem to mind expressing themselves however they want. “Homophobia hasn’t disappeared, but straight men today are not expected to be homophobic like they were in the 1980s and 1990s,” he said.
“This enables them to be [engaged] in softer gendered behaviors — they can cuddle and hug, wear fashionable clothes, care about looking good, and openly declare love for their friends.”
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I had been to the masseur a couple of times before, in a neighboring city, for just an ordinary(Swedish) massage so did know him from them. I decided to have my first ever tantric massage with him so that I felt I could trust him better than a total stranger and if I felt uneasy, I could tell him more easily when to stop. I had the choice of how he began his tantric massage, either by letting him undress me or me undressing and just putting a robe on first while he was out of the room. I decided on the latter.
He left the room while undressed and put on a full length fluffy white robe. On returning, he dimmed the lights and put on some mood music, that he had specially imported from Japan using traditional Japanese instruments also. He asked me to stand up from the chair and close my eyes while holding his hands as we stood and faced each other. He then told me to close my eyes, listen to the music and meditate while taking deep breaths. I did as I was told throughout. I started to feel more relaxed as the music and breathing took over. He then let go of my hands and moved them onto my robe, first of all massaging me all over it from shoulders down to my stomach and below. He then undid the robes chord that was fastened round my waist and inserted his hand inside it massaging me all the time and not letting his hand lose contact with my body. The massage was more intimate this time as his hands were now touching my skin all over but still inside the gown. He next put his hands on the top of my robe and let took it off my shoulders so that it fell to the ground leaving me standing there in front of him totally naked. I felt him take a step back and could hear him take of his vest and then his shorts. He took hold of my hands again and pulled he to him so that there was no space between our two naked bodies. I could feel his breath on the side of my face as our heads were not side by side. Our erections could be felt touching each other’s penises like old friends meeting up and embracing each other. Automatically our breathing got deeper and faster and out heads turned to face each other, my eyes still closed, as our lips met for the first time. We broke away for a few tentative seconds to take a breath before we quickly returned to exploring our opening mouths.
His hands lowered again as he massaged my whole body. I found my hands automatically doing the same. We were now massaging and exploring each other’s mouths and bodies. I had to break away as found myself in a sudden rush of the beginnings of an orgasm. He whispered in my ear to open my eyes…I did so and adjusted my eyes to the dim lights and the sight of my masseur’s naked body. He was a little fatter than he looked in clothing and his erect penis was not as big as mine and quite an unusual shape, which I thought looked like and erect slim triangle. I touched it all over one more time. I looked up to his face to see him smile as I smiled back to him….He then leads me to the massage table where he asked me to lie on my back. He then proceeded to massage me all over from head to foot moving round the tables as never before. It was nice to feel his body and erection touching my body too as he stretched over me. He played particular attention to my buttocks, massaging them deeply and separately and sliding his fingers down my crack and moving my cheeks further and further apart. More oil was put in that area as he massaged it in and loosened up my tenseness and hardness of my bottom. I felt him slide his fingers over my hole. I shuddered as it went up and down over it but never inside. I was worried at the point as I had never let anyone go inside it except my doctor who had not put on any lube before hand and I almost left doctors couch in the foetal position I was in on the medical exam and touched the ceiling in pain. He then asked me to turn over so he could begin massaging the front of my body.I felt strange but excited that i was lying there totally naked and could feel my erection still standing perfectly straight in the air at ninety degrees to my stomach ( i used to be a maths teacher… so know all about angles….lol)
He again started to massage me from the neck downwards stopping at my nipples to massage then and bring them to erection as much as my penis was. he then slithered his hands down to my hairy belly, where he massage it in circular strokes going deeper each time and harder so much that my penis started to shake about in time with his movement. It was wobbling about and shaking in a way I had never felt before bringing me almost to orgasm again. He then went to the bottom of the table and asked me to slide down the table so that my buttocks were slightly hanging over the end. He placed his hands underneath them and lifted them up and put two cushions underneath then as he lowered me down on them. he then took my legs in each hand and moved them wider apart. I began to sweat with excitement and fear of what was going to happen next. He placed himself between my open legs and moved in close. I felt his erection touch mine. I began to breathe more quickly and deeply taking in the mood music too that was still playing. He then massaged my belly again in those beautiful circular motions making my cock move, touching his cock as it moved back and forth. I was in the first throws of ectasty. He then started to massage my buttocks more and more and putting more and more on my hole. I was quivering as he entered slowly….I had asked him for no full sexual thing, just in case he tried as his cock was almost touching my entrance. I was surprised how easy he went in and through my tunnel of love without having no pain as with my own doctor. I never ever thought I would love this experience but I was surprising myself so much. His finger went back and forth slowly go further each time until suddenly it came to a halt. I felt a little shudder as he said “I am touching your prostate” He then put his free hand fully over my erection. Pulling it back from my body so much that it hurt and then letting it go so that it bounced back to place with such force I thought it would break….He did that a few time so that each time I looked forward to it and it felt less hurtful He then did the same but from a side ways angle….I was enjoying it and pleasure all the time. Then when my erection was fully standing back in its place he started to move my foreskin up and down slowly at first but increasing his speed, making sure he didn’t bring back my foreskin too much as he knew from a previous “hapy ending” that I had a tight foreskin…..
I wanted him to bring me to orgasm now and release my mans milk from inside its safe haven of my sac. I felt my milk slowly rising up and down my shaft. I started to hold it back in but wanted at the same time to let it release at full force as it had not been milked for some time and of late it had only been released in dribbles rather than a full forceful shoot. I could hold back no longer and let my man’s milk shoot the full length up my shaft and high into the air falling back onto my thick black pubic hairs. I remember almost blacking out in pleasure and never felt an orgasm so strong and powerful….I had never cum like this ever. After those first three main shoots, I felt my dick start to weaken but still pouring out my milk until he let go of it and it flopped on my cushion of hair but still letting ever the last drop of milky cum pour out every last drop. His fingers had be this time exited from my inside my body. He stood back letting me enjoy my last seconds of pushing my milk out onto my body. He came back to the top of my body, placed his hands over my chest, lowered his head and kissed me fully on the mouth. After a few minutes of rest, he pulled me up to sit me on the side of the massage bed and we embraced, saying nothing for what seemed hours. We kissed tenderly for a few minutes. He smiled at me in a knowing sense of succeeding with what he had intended. He helped me down and we stood next to one another naked again but this time with soft penises touching each other. We kissed for one last time before he leads me back to my clothes to get dressed. We spoke for some time after about life and I told him how when he was inside me I wanted to cry…not in fear but in pleasure and he said this happens a lot and I should have let go in that way more and maybe I would the next time. He gave me a final drink of water to ground me before I left. I walked away on a cloud of air and never felt my body to feel so new and refreshed. Did I go again….? Well, that’s another story for another day. Cheers Tony..stoke
Hello Seb, Your own exploration of your sexuality and the work you do with others has opened up new g(o)d of thought for me. Believe it or not, I’ve learned through reading your words to be a little kinder to myself and a little more patient and creative with getting to orgasm.
I’ve been fascinated with my butthole since I was little and have enjoyed reading about your thoughts and experiences where this amazing part of our bodies is concerned. I’ve learned to slide a dildo up into my hole and just leave it there – roll over and go to sleep and just let it be and enjoy whatever comes of the experience. I might never have done that had I not read about you doing it – and it’s something I really enjoy now. As a matter of fact, a plug is in my ass as I’m writing to you. I put it there several hours ago before a long Saturday morning nap.
It’s begging to be pulled now but it won’t be until I’ve finished with this letter. It’s no longer about the orgasm – it’s about moving into a new and different place with the sexual and physical experience. An extract from Affectionately, Lawrence
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