porn is a profligacy, like a condom

You are amazing at times, sex has been for ever, and there are rules and rules for centuries that regulate sex…but, it is in the body and mind and tissue of the being….so, have your wank and get the best you can…everytime…porn is a profligacy, like a condom…..besides most porn persons are really ugly and … Read moreporn is a profligacy, like a condom

a gathering of lovers

This is a gathering of lovers. In this gathering there is no high, no low, no smart, no ignorant, no special assembly, no grand discourse, no proper schooling required.

There is no master, no disciple. This gathering is more like a drunken party, full of tricksters, fools, mad men and mad women. This is a gathering of lovers. — Rumi

The Naked Guitarist is wanker of the Month August 2018

Warranted or Deserved?

I danced at your door,
not knowing if I
wanted or deserved
entry.
I sang at your window,
not knowing if I
Wanted or deserved
hearing.

I called out your name
Not knowing if I
Wanted or deserved
answering.
I’ve turned towards you,
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Remembering.

I called out your name
Not knowing if I
Wanted or deserved
answering.
I’ve turned towards you,
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Remembering.

I’ve shed real tears,
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Comforting.
I’ve stood very still,
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Holding.

I’ve waited so long,
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Meeting.
I’ve been confused
Not knowing if I’ve
Warranted or deserved
Clarity.

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The Sacred Masculine

Masculinity has a core of clarity, which does not act

from anger or greed or

sensuality, and a husk, which does.

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The virile center

that listens within takes

pleasure in obeying that truth.

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Nobility of spirit,

the true spontaneous energy

of your life, comes as you abandon other motives and move

only when you feel the majesty

that commands and is the delight of the self.

Jelaluddin Rumi – The Husk and Core of Masculinity (1207-1273)

BENEFITS? MALE MASTURBATION IN A MIRROR

The rose’s rarest essence lives in the thorns

Healing Your Root Chakra Tantric Practice is accessible to all human beings, here-and-now. In releasing representational reality to be present to what is through our sense of embodiment, we experience the erotic flow of existence. Free from evaluations and judgements we return to living fully, ethically, and passionately. That teachings in tantric practice are more … Read moreThe rose’s rarest essence lives in the thorns

Darkness is your candle

HI Seb, I have not heard of Rumi before but what he writes is very enlightening and further supports my beliefs that where men submit to men they are able to grow and develop in physical and spiritual strength (masculinity).

I don’t mean submit as in the traditional S&M sense as for me submission of a master is equally as significant as submission from a slave. One is worthless without the other. You have really ignited the masculinity and spirituality flame in me. I have been to a tantric massage lesson in the past which was fun but for me that is only one aspect. I suppose what i mean is that as men trust each other more, what becomes more significant is that they open their mind as well as their body – so it has to happen over time.

For me, it is the mind and shining a light in the darkness of the mind that allows the physical and spiritual to become one. Im not sure that makes sense – hopefully it does. Mark

the most sensitive part of the body for sexual pleasure

The Great : Outdoors

How many a generous rain has poured,
so that the sea could scatter pearls!
How many a sun of blessing has shone,
so that clouds and seas might learn generosity!

naked workman outdoors

The sunbeams of Wisdom struck the soil,
so that earth might receive seed:
the soil is faithful to its trust
whatever you sow, you reap.

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The soil’s faithfulness comes from that Faithful One,
since the Sun of Justice shines on it.


Until springtime brings the touch of God,
the earth doesn’t reveal her secrets.

[Mathnawi I: 501-511, tr. Kabir & Camille Helminski, The Rumi Daybook]